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Friday, 27 March 2009
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A Comeback??
* Laughs *
Everytime I say I will try to update this site regularly, I fail to do so. How about this time?
Hopefully, with Cougan's presence, things will be much easier and I will be able to update this site properly. World, welcome Cougan. He's my new black lappie. Hopefully, in due time, I will be able to call him my faithful black lappie.
I'm not much of a techie, just a regular user. But hopefully with time, I am able to beef Cougan up. Make him a mean machine. And make myself keep up with the lightning speed of gadgets and cyber applications.
That aside, these last few months has seen many changes in life. Both at work, and personally. Well, since I spend most of my time at work, there's not much of a life, I guess. That's what I am working on right now. To regain a life worth living. Praying hard that doors will open so that a worthy life can be reality. Pray with me.
Amidst that chaos and turmoil, there were of course some happy moments. And here they are. Enjoy.

Angie's Farewell. We had dinner at Nando's and adjourned to Finnegan's for a drink.
From L-R: (Sitting) Kerwin, Kian, Angie. (Standing) Jay, Alexis, Sharon, Me, Jimmy, Vilon
Yin and Jit in my car. All set for the drive to Cherating!
Yin and myself by the beach :D
Ema, Jit and Yin walking into the horizon, notice the rainbow on the top right? Lovely.
4 pairs of feet belonging to 4 happy people.
Secret to aging gracefully, moisturize, moisturize, moisturize... :D Advertisement for Loccitane lotions. Hehe
More updates to come for sure. Let's hope time permits.
Thursday, 11 December 2008
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Here I am again after a great disappearance. I remember Meowee tagging me on one of her entries, and tonight, felt the sudden urge to reply to her tag. My bad, that this place is no longer a priority, as some things are as well in my life at the moment (haha). But, at least I am trying to redeem myself in the blogosphere with this entry:
6 things I'm passionate about
1) READING - I remember way back during my childhood, I would be sitting in one corner of our one-bedroom flat in Rifle Range reading my beloved books. Of course, I was the only daughter and rather spoilt, but most of what I asked for were books (and they only cost like RM9.90 back in those days, sigh). I believe my brothers would testify on the stories of my talking to myself (actually, reading aloud la), talking to pillows (one of them accompanies me till this day..ahemm) and talking in my sleep (although what I say is usually inaudible). Favourite authors? The only books my mum bought for me were Enid Blyton books, so guess who? (100 BonusLink points for correct guesses :P) Then, I sort of graduated into Nancy Drew books and Hardy Boys. And something in common I share with brothers are the series "Tiga Penyiasat". I read them throughout my primary school years, not realizing they were Bahasa Malaysia adaptations of Alfred Hitchcock's "The Three Investigators". That's how I learnt about racial harmony in our country, I believe (can't remember the names of the three boys - but they were a Malay, Indian and a Chinese!). Which made me think, where are all those books?!
2) CHILDREN - what I actually mean are toddlers. Someday, I might have some of my own. But till then, I will be satisfied with being able to help other people's kids grow up properly. Oh, the pleasure of knowing that you can play a part in shaping one's mind.3) LEARNING - Life is an awesome journey of experiential incidences. It is always a matter of what we do with the things that we experience. Do we discard every experience, merely something that tells a story in our great story book of existence? Do we KIV some experiences so that we can use them as reference later on? Ultimately, for me, every single thing I experience, I take it as a learning process. Good or bad, the core of it lies in how much I can extract from that particular experience to make my life (or someday, when I am less selfish: other people's lives) a better one.
4) FRIENDSHIPS - I now know I am one of those who drift in and out of different groups of friends. When I was a kid, the best friends I had were my neighbours. Then in pre-school (this is really a blur... don't remember much, ironically, so let's skip this). In primary school, a group of us thought we were Friends Forever (remember those Biodata Books where we fill in our profile - and those corny statements?? Hilarious. I still have one of those in my drawer). We took our UPSR, and then parted ways. Some of us ended up in the same high school, but never remained close. We found new friends, new cliques - even throughout the different Forms, we had different 'gangs'. It was only after SPM, when I went to church that I had friends whom I know loves me for who I am (Shea Li, Danny (now Ps Danny) & Megan, for example). And four years of college life brought me people like the Journos (plus Tabby), who never judged me no matter what I've been through (but neither do they always stand on my side; amazingly, they rebuke me when I make boo-boos too). And thanks to that, I am able to stand proud to say, these are the friendships I treasure the most.
5) FOOD - Not ALL food. I am an easy person to please. To keep me happy, just throw in some sausages (major fan), char siew pau (SS15 used to have a stall that sells AMAZINGLY SOFT, MELTS-IN-YOUR-MOUTH ones. Now that I live in Setapak, fat chance I get to eat it anymore) and Bread Rolls with LOADS of butter. Wheee!!
6) COURTESY - Many people forget that courtesy can bring you really far. It's not just about smiling, saying hi, knowing where to insert your P's & Q's. It's about attitude. Manage it well, and you'll see many things change. I find it utterly spell-binding that everywhere, anywhere, anytime and EVERY time - the determining factor for almost ANYTHING is one's attitude. So, it's either you have it or you don't have anything. You choose. I live my life the way I see it. How about you?
6 books I read recently
1) The Sleeping Doll by Jeffery Deaver - the first of his series of Kathryn Dance novels. I am a major fan of Deaver's. His Lincoln Rhyme series are my ultimate favourites.
2) The Tales of Beedle the Bard by J.K. Rowling - Before I read it: This book has got to be awesome! AFTER I read it: Just a means of making more money for herself. Thanks, but no thanks.
3) Everyone Worth Knowing by Lauren Weisberger - This author wrote The Devil Wears Prada. Although that book was made into a movie, doesn't mean other books are good too (I'm NOT saying that The Devil Wears Prada is a good book!!). Entertaining, but empty. Nothing much one can learn from books like these (partying, clubbing, sleeping around, love triangles, affairs, the list goes on...). One is enough, two is not necessary, three is a definite no-no. Apologies to fans of this author. Just not my thing.4) Howl's Moving Castle by Dianne Wyne Jones - For those who watched the Japanese animation version by the Ghibli Studios and loved it, PLEASE read the book!! Awesome.
5) CURRENTLY READING - Wicked: The Life & Times of the Wicked Witch of the West by Gregory Maguire - If you think Harry Potter is cool, try this. Waayyyyyyy cooler!!
6) PLANNING TO READ: Son of a Witch by Gregory Maguire & Lion Among Men by Gregory Maguire - This is the second & third book in the Wicked series. All sitting on my bedside table, waiting for me to finish the first book so I can move on to the second and third. BORDER'S having a sale now... go grab 'em!
1) Jay Chou's Still Fantasy
6 songs/albums I can listen to over and over again2) One Republic's Dreaming Out Loud
3) Backstreet Boys' Greatest Hits Album (YES, don't laugh at me)
4) Pink's M!zundastood Album
5) City Harvest Church's Cross Album
6) Michael Buble's It's Time Album
6 things I learnt this past year:
1) Always bring your mobile phone into the toilet with you (so that you can make calls to rescue you), just in case you get locked in. You might have to kick your way out of the door by breaking it down. (Refer to Facebook pix: THE Door)
2) People who treat you nice might not necessarily care about you.
3) Family is always number one.
4) I also read in the Discovery Channel magazine that bats are NOT blind!! Isn't that something to learn?
5) Hierarchy of work life:
Things you need to do for yourself: LATER
Things you need to do for others: NOW
Things you need to do for boss: YESTERDAY (so make sure problems must ALWAYS be accompanied by solutions!!)6) And most importantly, I have learnt where the WiMax-included town of Setapak (and now in Johor too!!) is. Hehe.
6 valuable things I own:
1) Tobey (my faithful car)
2) Mummy, Ui Lee & Ui Sern (they're family, so considered ONE valuable item la)
3) My collection of books!!
4) Timmy
5) Journos & the countless friends who look out for me
6) This life that I owe everything to the One who made me, and still waiting for me to come home
6 bloggers I tag:
Don't really have anyone to tag. Just doing this because I felt I had to. Thanks, Meowee for tagging me. I really enjoyed filling in this entry.I've got a few ideas brewing in my head for another entry. And I am ACTUALLY on leave tomorrow. So, we'll see how these ideas can translate into reading pleasure in this new alternative (no more) media of blogs :D
Good night, world.
Tuesday, 07 October 2008
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Lost in trans(port)ation
It's funny how sometimes we plan things so well, but our plans don't turn out right at the end. I believe, most things need to taken in with a nonchalant attitude. Like.. a 'selamba' kinda feel, you know? Drive on auto-pilot, and you still get lost. Here's a story:
There was a visitor this morning at 9.00am. Scheduled to arrive, and we've coordinated all the different stations for him and his guests to tour our facilities. I woke up super early, got dressed, put on make-up and made it out of the house before 8.00am. Drove on the Mahameru highway... and there it was, my office building on the opposite side. All I needed to do, was to turn into the Balakong exit, and make a U-turn at the Turf Club round-about... BUT...
... I somehow went on straight along the highway. DUSH. D U S H!!!! Guess where I was heading? SEREMBAN. Yes, to Pammie's hometown. Can you believe it? There were no other exits... except the UPM one. Took that, paid one toll. The highway led me into some weird area.. Salak Jaya, Kg. Malaysia and finally after letting my ego down, called Samantha...who stays in Salak South (Yes, it is because I was lost in a place with the word 'Salak' in it). She doesn't know where I was as well. (Tick tock... it was 8.45am already)
Saw another toll. Paid. Went out, and followed the Kompleks Sukan Negara signboard. And yes, thanks to the amazing abilities of Malaysian signboards... the Kompleks Sukan Negara signboard just went 'poof' and was nowhere to be seen no more. Sigh. Thanks, Sign Board.
Called Sam again (poor girl, she was sleeping, maklumlah so early in the morning kan?) and when she picked up, I was already near office. THANK GOD!! P H E W!! Parked my car at 9.05am. Ran up, and the visitors hasn't arrived yet. Another P H E W...
Told the story to my colleagues and guess what one of them said?
"Daph, I believe you were transporting 'someone else' in your car. I think 'it' must have needed a ride there. No other reason why you would miss that turning which you are so familiar with," she said.
Kriii kriiii kriiiiiiiiiii....
Any takers on that comment??
Friday, 03 October 2008
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A hiatus of sorts..
Since the previous entry, much has happened. In the blink of an eye, I am now:- 23 years old
- No longer a management trainee
- A Subang-ite no more. LOL
- A Setapak-ian (if there's such a word)
- No longer with Harvest Generation (yes, you read correctly)
Congratulations to Nat Nat and Shao Hen who got married few weeks ago. Pix are all on Facebook.
Would love to update more. But running short of time. Will add more when the time comes. Promise to not neglect this place.
Till then.. :D - 23 years old
Monday, 05 May 2008
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Harvest Generation Camp 2008
Building Character, Impacting Lives...
That was the theme for our very first church camp. Harvest Generation's inaugural camp saw a group of more than 30 people congregating in Peace Haven, Genting Highlands - filled with a hunger and desire to have more of what God has promised for each individual life, and for the church as a whole.
True, as this is the first - many things might not have been perfect, but God is always good and the camp turned out to be an amazingly memorable one for all of us. From the crazy rush on Friday to drive up, right down to the 'communal living' as I would to put it. Every person that was there have their own story to tell of how God worked in their hearts, I believe.
I cannot generalize and make a collective overview of how it was for everyone, but here's my version of the story :D Enjoy.
Friday, 2 May 2008
2.55pm - All bags were packed. Turned off my PC and said goodbye to Timmy. Drove off and picked up Jeremy from Pangsapuri. I remember asking him, "Did you just take your bath?" when he came into the car. Coz he smelt strongly of body shampoo. And that cheeky boy dared to ask me.. "Why, u never mandi before u come out ah?" LOL
3.30pm - A group of us congregated at church. Packed what was necessary into the different cars. Raymond was told to go off first as he was handling the logistics and needed to be there to ensure all necessities are done before the campers arrive. Chris Cheah and family took off first, though.
4.00pm - Nick and Jeremy were in my car. Being the gentleman that he is, Nick drove Tobey. Genting Highlands... here we come :D
5.30pm - We reached Peace Haven safely. Tobey survived the drive up. Jeremy once again, did not fail to make me laugh uncontrollably all the way up. Thanks, Jeremy, for making my day.

Pris and Jeremy lepak-ing at the lounge area while waiting for the others to arrive.
The guys unloading stuff from Chris Cheah's Storm.

Durian tarts that Carol bought for us, coz they stopped by Gohtong Jaya before going up to Peace Haven.
That's Lisa.... the zany one. Hahahaha.... both Lisa and myself had the BEST time in the world taking pictures of sunset. I will upload the sunset pictures in another separate entry. As putting them in this entry would not do justice to the beauty of the sunset.... :D
Yes, this IS a necessary picture...
Myself and Lisa... wooohoooo
Chris Cheah giving some advice to Raymond about keeping fit.... or maybe not... I dunno...
Little Ryan.... :D That's Chris Cheah's son
9.00pm - The second group who left KL much later [coz they went to work] reached Gohtong Jaya. And we all drove down to meet them and had dinner together. Here are some pix:

Makan time is always the happiest time :D
Was trying to take a shot of the garlic and soya sauce bottle and the tissue box.... and only realized there are two faces here.... LOL. That's Nick on the left, and Calvin on the right.
10.45pm - We drove back up to Peace Haven, and had our first group meeting. :D Everyone was happy and ecstatic [though really tired] as camp is officially about to start :D Wheeeee

Waiting for the briefing to start....
Lisa doing some stretching...
Jeremy???
12.30pm - After washing up, and doing what's necessary [like trying my utmost best to update my Twitter in the DiGi-Yellow Man-less place - my DiGi WAP wasn't working...arrrgghhh] while the other younger ones study for their upcoming exams and complete their assignments... it was lights off...zzzzzzz
Saturday, 3 May 2008
7.00am - Rise and Shine :D Amazingly, all the girls were up early and were up and about doing their own things by this time.
8.15am - We broke up into our groups and had our morning devotion. Uncle James, Donald, Brenda, myself and Kohni were in a group. We had a good time as Brenda shared the Word. Not only was it refreshing, but a time that made the day for all of us as it set the pace for us throughout the first day of camp.
9.00am - BREAKFAST :D Hungry people we are after an early start.
10.00am - Our very first session :D Awesome worship. And a message that connects your heart back to your brain. Being the person that I am, it was amazingly helpful to be reminded that I must not succumb to being someone who runs only on emotions. It is not just what we are, but who we are...
12.00pm - End of the session. This camp really enabled a lot of us to get to know each other better. :D
2.00pm - Games start. Jeremy, the Game Master put us through some games that....hhhmm... we've never played in camps before... not conventionally though. But we had a good time :D
4.00pm - Anything that happened after this at the camp, I would have no idea. I started driving down to KL already for YTL's Climate Change Week Gala Dinner at JW Marriott, KL. It was an interesting event.
Sunday, 4 May 2008
1.00am - Reached Subang Jaya after Gala Dinner. Peace Haven's gate closes at 11.00pm, therefore it was impossible for me to drive up after my event. So went home, and crashed there before driving up again in the morning.
7.45am - Picked Corrine up from Sunway Apartments and headed towards the petrol station to fill Tobey up. Then, started jouney up to Genting. :D Woohooo... it was really fun driving up.
9.00am - Reached Peace Haven. Guess what everyone was doing? You are RIGHT :D Having breakfast. I joined in, together with Corrine.
9.30am - Our 3rd session starts. Well, actually it was our church service :D Up in Gentings. It was really nice... I mean having service up in Gentings. Once again, a message so clear cut you must be a stone if you don't catch it. Willingness, Teachability, Taking up responsibilities and Perseverance.... essence of a life that's able to impact other lives. A life of substance made of good attitude and character :D
11.30am - We pretty much ended our session, and cleared up the meeting room. The others went to clear out the dorms while I went around loading things into different cars. Maklumlah, I don't have anything to pack. Best thing is... I realized I left my locker key in the khaki pants I wore on the first day, and the pants were already back in Subang... we got fined RM5 for it. My bad...
Someone's cousin... MonKEE.... :D HAhAHHAa
Yes, this is the same MonKEE
A view from the mysterious house up there....
Just lepak-ing and having fun...
Florence the natural poser with Pris.... the uhhhh..... unnatural poser? HAhAHa.....
Pris again...
Chris Cheah....
Brenda in her protective gear.... kekekeke
Sharlyn carrying baby Kate-Lynn
Adrienne and myself....
Little Ryan again... :D
Soon-to-wed couple.... Brenda [without protective gear...LOL] and Ps Ryan :D
Ern Suey walking with Baby Kate-Lynn....
2.00pm - We headed down to Gohtong Jaya, and had our durian fix before driving back to KL :D

Freshly made Kaya Swiss Roll....
Durian bombs.... it tasted funny.... used to be really nice...
Our ultimate favourite... DURIAN TARTS :D
5.20pm - We reached church. Why did it take so long for us to reach? That's another story to tell at another time. But it sure was a hilarious story :P
I am sure I could've written this in a better way, that might make the camp look better or sound better or whatever else. But in this simple way, I would say... I loved it.
Friday, 02 May 2008
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My New Baby :D
After my green Nike Waffle Racer was given to my mum two years ago, I never owned a proper pair of walking shoes. First and foremost, I never actually owned any pair of proper walking shoes. LOL... reason being, I never could wear my Waffle Racer in the first place. It was 2 sizes too small for me... I bought it anyway because it was just toooooo NICE :P
So, being the person that I am, I gave it to my mum... who in turn, being the person that she is... gave it to HER mother... which is my grandmother. Now, my granma wears it to her Tai Chi sessions with her buddies. Hahaha... that used to be my baby.
But this afternoon, I found a new baby :D Here it is...

The Adidas Country Sleek :D Happiness.
Will blog more when I am back from camp. Will be up to Gentings tomorrow... do pray that I'd be safe as I'd be driving up and down alone on Saturday.
Till then, have a great weekend, world :D
Thursday, 01 May 2008
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With the pressures faced these days, the only thing that probably keeps me sane would be the Hairspray soundtrack. The songs NEVER fail to make me smile and re-energize the very tired me.
Well, I know that I've promised to put up more pix of when my siblings and I were much younger...so here they are in this entry :D
Oh and one more thing, the keyboard I have here in Subang Jaya has gone bonkers. The whole uppercase for symbols are now not functioning. Hence, no more exclamation marks - which I love so much and no more other symbols, and I can't even write anything in a bracket... time for a new PC / laptop maybe? We'll see...
I spent the last night I had in Penang looking for old pictures and taking pictures of the pictures I found. I can't deny that it was LOADS of fun, but yet they brought back so much memories I had some tears in my eyes. Some pictures are just classic, like this one:

That's me on the left, and my elder bro on the right. I love this pic, and for the longest time have forgotten the existence of this snapshot. How nice it would be if times were like before, carefree, happy and simple. Now that we are all in our 20's - we're all busy trying to make our big bucks and working our butts off to earn a living, such simple, happy times are rarer than a blue moon. Ui Lee, if you see this... doesn't it make you glad that we still have each other at the end of the day? :D

Imagine how I felt when I saw this. I've been swimming since I was a lil kid. Haha... maybe that's why I love being in the water so much. That's my dad holding his first two kids in what I believe is the pool of Equatorial Hotel in Penang. No use crying over spilt milk, but how I wish my dad's still around... I'd take him swimming :D

That would probably be my younger bro's birthday. I remember him being a very adorable and cute baby. My mum used to bring him to school when she picks me up or when she brings me food in the canteen - and all my friends would go like "Wahhhh.... ur brother sooo cute, not like you". HAhaha... but that didn't stop my ever growing ego... :P
Here are some pix of myself when I was in kindergarten and primary school. Pictures of myself in high school would probably scare you so much, you'd never visit this site again. Lol...


Yah, they are rather blur... :P
And once again, how can my postings of picture be complete without my vanity poses:

Yuppp, it dates back till then.... I really wonder who took this picture. Thank you. Haha :P
That's all for the pictures, now going to some other matters... I have some other things about my yesteryears which are worth mentioning, but think I will save it for another post. And trust me, it'll be an interesting one :D
See ya soon.
Friday, 25 April 2008
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Beware: U might be shocked... :P
This will definitely be the most exciting blog entry this site has ever seen... Oh well, to me at least.
Yes, most of you would know that I am enjoying myself back home in Penang. As Kat would always say, there'd be posts on what I ate, what I did, and comments on what has changed in Penang. But this time, it might be a lil different...
I was back at my old place this whole afternoon, clearing up the place as we wanna rent it out soon. Can you imagine... three whole years, that place has been vacant. But anyway, that's not the point. Sooo, we were looking through some of our old stuff, and I stumbled upon a file. And it says... BUKU LAPORAN (!!!!!), which was together with a blue card. And guess what was on the blue card??
Let me show you....

HAhAHHAhhaHAhHAahahhaAA~!!!! My first reaction was to LAUGH OUT LOUD. If I am not mistaken, this was taken right before I entered Form 1. Jz check out the GLASSES... it's R O U N D!! And my face tooo!! (ignore the extensive use of exclamation marks here) I am speechless... but yeah, that was ME :D Wheeeheee! Honestly, I couldn't resist taking a pic of this and post it here... classic, man!
So I thought, since I had to humiliate myself, I might as well take all the other pics of my family members... hehehe. There are more to come, as we left a few more bags at the old place... but here are some anyway:

That's my mum and dad when they first got married... :D Dun they look good together... Papa, I miss you, we ALL do :D Was ecstatic to have found this picture.. hehe

And this is my younger bro when he was 7, LOL... It was at the jetty before we headed off to Langkawi. :D I'll put up pix of what he looks like NOW... in my next post la.. :D Didn't have any pix of my elder bro in the bags we brought back today... will put it up once I get them. HHahahHAa... what my brothers will do to me after this... hahahha.. I wonder
That's all for old photos... gonna put up more in my next entry. But anyway, since we were at my old place and we parked right opposite my primary school, thought I'd take some pix to show u guys what it looks like:

The block you see here used to be a nice big field, which we planted a nice little garden when we were in Std 6 (the class of '97 la). But now, it's all destroyed!! And the new block stands on our little garden. Think they moved the canteen to this new block too.. the old canteen on the other side must've been converted into something else already. No idea what..
And since I was around the area... I decided to show you the graveyard right opposite my school (and house) too :D

If you can see the little green roof somewhere in the middle... that's where my dad's ashes are...
The graveyard you see here, is Batu Gantong... so now you all know where what Batu Gantong looks like :D
Well, this is all for now. Will update more soon :D
Sunday, 20 April 2008
Friday, 11 April 2008
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Little things...
What are some of the little things that makes you happy?
I feel happy when I get to stay home and read a book, preferable weather: rainy.
I feel happy when I get to drink a regular latte with no sugar after a long hectic day.
I feel happy when my hair is obedient (straight, no frizz and smells like citrus).
I feel happy when I get to eat McDonald's breakfast, preferable weather: cloudy.
I feel happy when I get occassional sms-es from people whom I thought was not close to me, but says they think of me constantly.
I feel happy when I wake up and find I have 30 minutes more to sleep before my alarm rings in the morning. :D
I feel happy when my kids say they sayang me.
What are some of the little things that makes you happy?
-------------------------------------------------------------------------Sitting here in the office with a little breakie, makes me think of the different 'jobs' I have been through before. Basically, according to my mother, I am one lucky privileged 'cow' as I was born in the late evening in the year of the cow (or what people usually call OX la). Why? Coz cows and oxens usually rest and 'sau gong' (tutup kedai in Cantonese) for the day. Therefore, my life is supposed to be easy-going, with everything I need provided for.
How far is that true? I can't tell, really. Who on earth believes they are one lucky privileged cow? LOL.
The typical thing for a Form Four student to do during the holidays is to look for a part-time job. Back in those days, it's Super Komtar, Sunshine Farlim and Prangin Mall (especially when Parkson just opened)... but for me, I remember going to Super Komtar to take the employment form. I remember filling it up when I reached home. But funnily, I never remembered submitting it. I definitely do remember spending my whole holiday having fun with cousins, friends and family. Haha..
After SPM, the typical thing for an SPM-graduate is to look for a part-time job too. Guess what? Yes, same cycle - took form (this time from Sunshine Farlim I think), filled form, never submitted it. Nope, did not work again. :D But I certainly remember staying home, watching TV, eating alot (and I grew FAAATTT) and not helping my mum out at home (one lucky privileged cow I'm supposed to be, I was trying to be one) or what I should say, a spoilt brat!! Haha.. that particular year also reminds me of many good things as I started going to church then. :D
When I started college, we had 3-month long holidays. I never remembered working part-time either. Except when I had a short stint of 'internship' in Flatfish, the communications arm of AYA Ministries. Then, it was another short stint of being in INkafe as a waitress. That was fun indeed. :D
Next thing I know, another year or so has passed and I was in my first year of degree. And yes, we had to go for another stint of internship. This time, I decided to not stick to writing, but to go into a Public Relations company - MYC. That three months was the best in my life (at that time laaa). Free movie tickets, free goodies from our clients, free cosmetics, free magazines, free albums, free merchandise... wahhh, one lucky privileged cow!! And not just that, opportunities to go around different campuses in Klang Valley and getting acquainted with different ones as I host the different roadshows... these are memories that will never leave my mind. WORK?? What's that I ask? No one could've asked for a better internship anywhere else. :D
What's next then? I also remember being together with Aidan in a company called Somerset Holidays or something, located in the Bali Building. I was a telemarketer!! Haha, what a hilarious joke... I only survived 7 days as I didn't like the idea of selling things over the phone (but mainly I can't stand the idea of having to sell a product I wouldn't buy myself). I got paid a total of RM275.50 for that 7-day favour I gave to them... not bad eh? (for a student laaa)
Another VERY interesting part of working life would have to be the moment I joined VentureLink3 as part of the moderators' team for corporate training programs. Great people with great attitude, working has never been better. Furthermore, every session includes free meals & a paid holiday! I get to stay in wooden chalets, swim in a pool of water sourced directly from the spring, learn how to dive from a swimming coach, learn winning strategies from an established businessman and soak myself in a waterfall!!! All this while working... awesome eh? :D
Suddenly, I found myself sending out resumes, looking for a real permanent job. This publication, that publication... turned down offers... and there came my golden opportunity (or so I thought at that point) knocking on my door. And as I started work on 1 August 2007, I've thought it through and through again on whether I made the right decision to not venture in writing, but take the route of Public Relations. Today, which is 8 months and 11 days down the road, I find myself heaving a sigh of relief... it definitely was not a mistake. :D All this... with loads of great things to add to the list of what one lucky privileged cow could enjoy.
Tuesday, 08 April 2008
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Currently Reading
The Hammer of Eden
By Ken Follett
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Finally, some good time to sit down and ponder upon my life. Oh well, nahhh... just happy to actually have a good time to myself, to enjoy what I love, and yes... one of it is to update my blog. Amazingly, which I have failed to do for the longest time.
Looking back these past few months, Jan - April 2008, many things have transpired between myself and the different groups of people that I mix with. There's my group of church friends of course, then there's my group of colleagues, whom till today I sometimes find it hard to entirely be myself around them; and of course, my favourite bunch of people to hang around - the Journos; and there's also new found friends (who all started off as business contacts when we first met).
Some things are good, some things might not be so good. And for the reason that this extensive network of people I am surrounded with are soooooo varied, I find myself to be varied too. I would have to attribute this to my ability to adapt to my environment well. It's a good skill to have, you know... with the rate things are moving in this world. Hahaha... but as much as it's a good thing that I can adapt easily to things... it doesn't exactly help when these things I so quickly learn takes too long to wear off.
Eh? Don't get what I am trying to say? Okay, here's a low-down... in the morning, when I reach office I see the security officers at the South Gate and I go, "Abang, selamaaat pagiiii (smiles sweetly), hansem nampak hari ni?? (giggles)" and there'd be no problems when I encounter any 'problems' in the office. :D
As I walk upstairs, I'd meet the group of janitors who take care of the 3rd floor and they'll start jabbering away in super broken Malay, as most of them are from Bangladesh and only learnt how to speak Malay here... and I find myself talking like them when I respond to their questions!! Can't exactly describe it here, but a typical conversation sounds something like this, "Selamat pagi akak,lu sudah makan kah? Kenapa lu begini pagi awal datang? Jangan buat kerja susah susah tapi tak pigi minum, nanti lu sakit oh," Abang Shukor will go. And I will reply, "Morning! Buat kerja memang macam ini la, apa nak buat. Nanti kalau ada masa nanti baru minum la. U pun jangan lupa mau makan." (All this while flashing a nice big smile)
As work starts, there's a lot of interaction with different people as I pick up calls and run around coordinating the different things needed to be completed for the day. If an Indian calls me, I'd talk vith d Indian aksent and 'geleng' my kepala. If a Malay calls me... I'd be speaking BM as if I knew no other language. If a Chinese calls and requests to speak in Mandarin... I'd sound like THE most 'Cina' person you'll ever meet. And when it's a person speaking with an accent... I suddenly start speaking with an accent too!!
On top of that, the roles I play in the different 'institutions' can drive me nuts sometimes. At work, I am the management trainee, who takes the role of standing back and observe and learn as much as possible from my seniors. How things are done, why they are done, and the ropes of things. No front stage, no people looking up to you... but people observing you to assess you. OoooOooo, that really keeps me on my toes.
But in church, I'm given the privilege to be on the frontline, where I take a leadership position. Decisions need to be made, and people observe you too, but not to assess you but to learn from you. How things are done, why they are done and the ropes of things... are all in my veins, and to make sure that I live an exemplary life that will make an impact in the generations to come. Whoa, what a stark difference.
And in between the 'switching' of these two roles, they actually blend into one. Making a totally 'mixed-up' person. If you've learnt about the four temperaments that a person might have - sanguine, phlegmatic, melancholic and choleric... I'd be a good mixture of all four of them. And having to interchange all the four at one go is no easy task, let me tell you that!!
So forgive me my dearest friends if I've wronged you in any way in these last few months. At least now, you know a tiny-weeny lil bit more about being in my shoes. I'm not complaining though... coz it's one exciting life that enables me to rediscover myself. Why do I say that? Coz sometimes, being in the positions that we have been in for too long can only put you in a stereotype that people have made of you. You act according to what people expect of you, and you lose what you really are.
Having the chance to explore and see beyond the horizon is a great opportunity. Not everyone is given that chance. And I intend to keep mine :D
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That aside, been browsing around and found many many books that I am DYING to get my hands on. Here are some titles, which I thought would be great to share with all of you:
Howl's Moving Castle by Dianne Wynne Jones. Yup, for those who love the anime from Studio Ghibli, this is the original story. :D

The Stone Monkey by Jeffery Deaver. This is the first Deaver book I've ever read, which turned me into a Deaver-fanatic. Love every single Lincoln Rhyme series written by him. And this is the only Lincoln Rhyme series of Deaver's which I have yet to own.

My latest fascination - Holly Black, a great modern fairy tale writer. Amazing talent, superb storyline. This is the first of three books - Tithe: A Modern Faerie Tale

Valiant: A Modern Tale of Faerie by Holly Black. And if you're wondering why her name is familiar... she is the author of the Spiderwick Chronicles.

And the third one... Ironside: A Modern Tale of Faerie by Holly Black.
Hoping to save some money to get all these books into my collection by end of this year :D Anyone up for a Daphne Book Fund? :P
Chao.
Monday, 31 March 2008
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Somehow, I knew this was coming after reading the entry in Kat's blog. LOL. Yup, I was tagged and I hope that with this entry, there will be a revival of my half-dead blog. Here goes:
Real name: Cheah Ui Jen
Nickname: Ah Chen, Oh Chean, Daffy, Deaf, Vitagen, Sustagen, Pigeon.. & Durian (by a primary school mate long long time ago)
Married: NO
Male/Female: FEMALE
High school: Sekolah Menengah (P) St. George Pulau Pinang (SGGS lives!!!)
College: Taylor's College, and yes, jz like Meow... degree frm USM la
Short or long hair: Always long, never short
Are u a healthy freak: Depends on my mood, and who I am with... :)
Height: 168cm tall
Do u have a crush on someone?: Hhhhmm... yes, of course. Firstly, there's Jay Chou, then there's Jay Chou, and then there's also Jay Chou.... but seriously, yes, of course.
Do u like yourself: Sometimes, I like myself too much. So yes.
Piercings: Enough for me to wear a pair of earrings
Righty of lefty: Righty
First....
Surgery: On my right knee. Had an accident on 13 Dec 2003. A car knocked into the then-mat-rempit me. Had a huge hole on my right knee, all docs did was just opening up my knee and washing it. But being in the operation theatre was kinda cool :D
Piercing: When I was 7 yrs old, forced my mum to take me...
Person u see in the morning: The janitor, Abang Shukor, who works on the 3rd floor / security guard who takes care of the South Entrance. LOL
Sport u join: Football in primary school.
Pet: Never had any pets, imaginary ones count? I've got Timmy... :D
Vacation: Oh gosh, I know this... Genting Highlands... HAhahaha, most of you might know why I'm laughing. Know that place like the back of my hand.
Concert: WESTLIFE!!! In Genting as well... back in year 2000.
First crush: A Malay boy (Meow, why la so similar one?) in primary school, when I was Std 3 named Kamarulzaman. Hahahaha... hope he is not reading this.
Currently...
Eating: Nothing, but wishing for blueberry muffin and New York Cheese Cake
Drinking: Nothing, but wishing for a nice latte from Starbucks
I’m about to: watch CSI once it comes on TV
Your future...
Want kids: Definitely, 4 of them!
Want to get married: If things go well, yes...
Careers in mind: I wanna have either: a) my own nursery / b) my own travel magazine
Which is better?
Lips or eyes?: For what purpose...??
Hugs or kisses: I'm a Leo who constantly needs attention, so... both!
Shorter or taller?: Definitely taller, coz short ain't my thing. HAhaha...
Romantic or spontaneous: Refer to 'hugs or kisses' question...
Sensitive or loud: Refer to 'hugs or kisses' question too...
Troublemaker or hesitant?: Definitely trouble maker... hesitant people go no-where.
Have u ever....
Kissed a stranger?: Nope
Drank bubbles: The ones on my latte, yes. On Sarsi too...
Lost glasses/contacts: Lost a few pairs of glasses in primary school, and lost contact lenses a few times last year. Haiihhh....
Ran away from home: For 30 minutes...
Liked someone younger: Nope!
Liked someone older: Oooo Yeahhh...
Broke someone's heart: Hahahaha, well, yup. Only once though...
Been arrested: I'd have to go with Meow's answer for this as well: I was accused of stealing someone's mobile phone during our Journo Genting trip, and we were brought to the police station... the rest of the Journos had to come with me... kesian them. But... I DID NOT STEAL THE PHONE. Uurrgghh....
Cried when someone died: Definitely... even cried when Son Goku died in Dragonball Z. HAhaha...
Liked a friend: Not yet... or u mean this the literal way? If so, yeah.. I like all my friends. Haha
Do u believe in...
Yourself?: Yup..
Miracles: Definitely...
Heaven: Has to exist...
Santa Claus: Never did... Leos are sceptics too
Magic: Think so...
Angels: Yup
Answer truthfully..
Is there someone you want to be with right now?: Yup.
Do u believe in God?: Yup :D
Tag 2 ppl:
1) Clemmie Pammie
2) Kelvin Lim
Saturday, 15 March 2008
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After a hiatus of three months or so.. I return with a not-so-good-feeling blog entry.
We are, undeniably, beings of emotions, feelings and sensitivities. No one is exempted. But can we feel as what we want to feel? Can we say as we want to say? NO... is the answer supposedly.
Just as the 12th General Election came to a close, the politics of fear in our country, I hope, will come to a close too. But that's on the macro. How about the micro?
Are we so used to being governed by the ones who assume power that we can't make decisions for ourselves? Does a bunch of nods and yes-es determine the consensus of the whole? Is nothing questionable?
As humans, we love to not assume responsibility when something goes wrong. But when they do, we'd secretly hope someone would not only pat us on our back and say, "Wow, you did it" but also bring the news to the relevant parties who need to know. Humans..
Attention, some of us crave. Dissension, all of us hate. What are all these but words conjured by fellow humans who crave and hate the same things?
A better world, is what most people are talking about doing. A better life, is what most people are doing to keep more people talking.
But a better you and me... is not just the talking, but a lot of doing.
Let's forgive and forget. Even if the decency of apologizing and clearing the air with transparency is not present? Even if having to stoop down and be stepped over is necessary? Is there still dignity?
If the above are applicable, then there would be no need to forgive :)
Thank you, for I can still keep my dignity.
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